[Phil is listening at what Watson was saying and not batting an eyelash. It's good to air these things out! He doesn't even look smug, just listening, and there's a pause]

From experience, dildos are weird. And Doc, you're okay to feel awkward and not too open. You're also very giving but something's holding you back. And it's not necessarily Sherlock. It could be stifling you finding some sort of connection with people here.

Are you afraid of loss?